It's okay not to be okay

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Fake it till you make it? Don’t buy into that.
Roll your dice just as they are—no need to mask your scars.
Being real won’t hurt; there’s always room for those who care.

Burst into tears—it’s okay not to be okay.
They might say you’ve let your guard down,
But let their words fall on deaf ears—you are human.

Be stronger than ever. Whenever you fall, rise again.
And always—keep that smile on your face.

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